My dad's mom passed away last Sunday at the age of 90. She has been through plenty of hardship over the last several years, physically and mentally, and it has been something of a relief to know that she's finally free from the exhaustion of this earthly life.
Grandma had a tough exterior. I've often felt that I never really knew her. By the time I grew out of all my adolescent quirkiness and wanted to learn a little about her she had lost most of her strength for life...and I had lost an opportunity to learn.
As I've thought about her this last week, however, I realized something I hadn't before. Each of us are chock-full of those personalities, idiosyncrasies, and behaviors that were originally born within those who come before us. I do know her, at least a little, because part of her lives on in me. There are a couple personality traits that I can attribute to (or blame on) grandma: The OCD tendencies which afflict me (and cheer me at the same time) have a strong foundation in grandma. My family's habit of repeating words or phrases two or more times (you all know you do it too) can be credited to her as well.
Strange. But oddly reassuring. It's nice to know that we all play a part in each other's lives. We all leave something behind. I am who I am today, in part, because of those who surrounded me, loved me, and taught me about life. Grandma is one of those people. And today I'm grateful for her contribution. For the role she played.
Me & Grandma 1974ish
Me & Grandma 2001
Love you, grandma. Oh...and say hi to grandpa for me.
6 comments:
Ah Grandma Heninger.
I'll never forget her funny laugh. Or how she'd always complain Grandpa wouldn't "eat enough to put in his eye".
you guys are great - I don't remember much. however as a young kid (pre juvenile diabetes) I do remember the skittles jar and the cheese puffs bowl. I only have a few memories of their house in Calgary. Most of the memories are from Lethbridge.
I'm sorry for your loss. You brought up a lot of great thoughts. Thanks.
I'm sorry for your loss. You brought up a lot of great thoughts. Thanks.
Sorry Amy for your loss! I had a grandma like her or so it seems! Love the tribute! BTW...that looks like Ellie sitting on her lap! How did you do that? And you are a gorgeous bride! Love ya!
As always...beautifully written Amy! Sad that you and I lost our Grandmas around the same time. Maybe they can hang out in heaven together. Loved the pictures.
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